According to the NSPCC neglect is the most common form of child abuse with one in ten children experiencing neglect in the UK. It is the most common reason for taking child protection action.
A child may be neglected if they are:
- left hungry, dirty or poorly clothed
- living in an unsafe home, such as around violence, alcohol or drugs
- not getting love, care or attention
- not getting education, health or dental care
Neglect often happens over a period of time but can also be a one-off event. Incidents often don’t meet social care or criminal thresholds as it is the cumulative effect that is most impactful.
A child who is neglected will often suffer from other forms of abuse as well. Neglect is dangerous and can cause serious, long-term damage or even death.
How to spot signs of neglect
You can spot signs of neglect in children if they are:
- living in a home that is undisputedly dirty or unsafe
- left hungry or dirty
- left without adequate clothing
- living in dangerous conditions, around drugs, violence or alcohol
- often angry, aggressive or self-harm
- failing to receive basic healthcare
- not getting medical treatment when they are ill or injured.
You may notice a child who is neglected because they:
- become withdrawn
- suddenly behave differently
- are anxious, clingy or obsessive
- become depressed or aggressive
- take risks such as breaking the law, running away from home, getting involved in dangerous relationships
- have problems sleeping or having nightmares
- have a change in eating habits or suffer from eating disorders
- wet the bed
- soil their clothes
- miss school
- abuse drugs or alcohol
In an emergency, or if you believe a child is at immediate risk of harm, call the police on 999.
How to report child neglect
Reporting concerns doesn’t mean that a child will be taken into care. Children’s Services are there to help families to manage any problems they are having.
The effects of neglect on children
Children who have been neglected may experience short-term and long-term effects that last throughout their life.
Neglect can affect:
- early brain development
- language
- physical injuries from accidents
- self-esteem
- school attendance
In the worst cases, children can die from malnutrition or being denied the care they need and in some cases it can cause permanent disabilities.
Children who don’t get the love and care they need from their parents may find it difficult to maintain healthy relationships with other people later in life, including their own children.
Children who have been neglected are also more likely to experience mental health problems including depression and post-traumatic stress disorder.